Saturday, 9 July 2016

Being ignored


Message sent to john Friday 6am
Morning John great spread in paper (at last) hope it all went well yesterday. Can you do me/us a favour and push the dance week to any parents who may have children looking for summer activities and also to any of the kids coming Sunday, 9year olds up ( or enthusiastic hard working 8 year olds) We only have 10'book at mo so need a few more... Only one booked for adults but I know we have more that just haven't booked yet.... I know I didn't leave many flyers but if you can pop to corn ex and get a bunch of their Get Involved brochure its in there. Ta muchly xxx

No reply by end of day so sent a text 8pm 
Still no reply 

So I sent another message sat 8pm 
Feeling somewhat ignored... A quick reply would have been nice.... Unless by some technology break down my messages haven't got to you.... !

And got an immediate reply : 
Yes got and received but incredibly busy day

To which I replied :
Sounds like it was very successful. Nearly over ......

What I wanted to reply was this : 
Dear John
Feeling really sad that our friendship has completely broken down. I'm not even sure if you are aware that it has... I'm not really sure what you think these days. I totally understand that you are consumed by Nocturn but you do need to remember there is a world beyond nocturn and you can't just walk all over your friends and or ignore them because 'your busy'. We are all busy but find time for each other. I have helped you out and on so many occasions so Yes I Do expect a quick response when I send a messages esp. when it's about a joint project... I seriously didn't know if you'd got my messages and if you had why you weren't responding. Being busy is a rubbish reason, how long does it take to text 'yes will do' or alike... 
This is just the tip of the iceberg but the latest incident. We definitely need to talk but I realise this is not the right time but when you have more head space we need to clear the air if we are going to continue to work together. 



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